We’ve been married for over 30 years now, and Valentine’s Day is still important.  Actually, what’s important is  taking time to nourish your relationship with your spouse or significant other. We had a standing dinner date for years when Laura had her Wednesday night ball et class – there was just enough time in between delivery and pick up.

But for Valentine’s day – let’s be a little more romantic.  Start with the setting – candles, soft music, and a dinner ending in chocolate.  It doesn’t have to be complicated to be special! Keep it simple and spend time with your sweetheart – but not in the kitchen.

Five Ways to Make Valentines Day Dinner Special and Romantic

1.  Light some Candles! Ambiance is everything.  A little soft flickering glow goes a long way – put there everywhere!

2.  Play “your song”!  Remember the song you playing when you fell in love?  Find it and play it softly.  What ever genre you prefer, make a playlist to last the whole evening.  We have a favorite that includes everything from the Love Theme from Romeo and Juliet to the Beach Boys.

3.  Make a dinner to remember!  Men love steak, so how about Peppery Beef  Tenderloin Steaks followed up by Blackberry Cabernet Brownies (maybe with a little ice cream on the side)!

4.  Have a role for the children.  If they are young enough, you can put them to bed, but if they are old enough, make them part of the special evening.  Find a dish that they can make, like a simple dish.  Have them act as waiter(s) on your table.  Then let them watch a special video while you dine in peace!

5.  Give them your love!  You don’t really need to go beyond a special evening to please your honey, but if you want to, give a special gift.  How about a certificate to have you complete one of their least favorite chores, or to go for a special afternoon out for the two of you!  I promise to take the dogs for a walk on the beach with Rick.

Happy Valentines Day!  Tell me how you are going to celebrate!

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